Sometimes desire of the woman to bring the child does not cause reciprocal enthusiasm from the husband. He can refer to unavailability – moral or financial. As to convince the beloved that it already "ripened" to a role of the father?
1. You do not press on the man morally, do not conduct with him tiresome hour conversations how it is exciting to have children. And especially do not roll up a hysterics and be not let to blackmail. Similar methods will not result in positive result, and here you will be able to cause hostility in the man.
2. You praise the husband, appreciate his care and attention. Let sometimes darling hear from you the following phrases: "From you the wonderful father" or "You such attentive will turn out, I represent what you will be a father". You pronounce these words sincerely and with admiration. Only be not overzealous if to repeat them too often, they will become habitual and will just fly by the spouse's ears.
3. Visit together with the husband of friends and relatives who have small children. Communication with strangers of the kid, will wake the sleeping parental instincts over time. Therefore, quite possibly, after the next campaign on a visit the husband himself will start talking to you about reproduction.
4. Address parents of darling, tell them about the desire to become mother. It is possible that they dream of grandsons for a long time. If this is soIf this is soIf this is so, ask them to talk to the son about desire to become the grandmother and the grandfather. It is possible that he subconsciously waits for approval from parents. And after the conversation with them seriously will think that it would be time to become the father already.
5. Learn to wait, maybe so – your man himself also wishes the child, but at present does not feel confident. Material difficulties can be the reason for that or he decided to achieve career development and at this stage removes paternity. Anyway, try to understand its position and let it know that together you solve the most complex problems. So you once again convince the spouse that he did not make the wrong choice of the half and mother of his future tots.