Human history abounds with numerous examples of fight for supremacy of the power in which the showdown between gender antipodes also plays an important role. It is enough to remember Ancient Greece with its diverse models of communal and state system to whom the priority relation was given to patriarchy, matriarchy. These showdowns perhaps would also be farther relevant if the primitive principle of physical prevalence where only force of muscles got the best of grace and beauty in the family relations did not prevail.
In the context of comprehensive consideration of the family relations it is appropriate to remember thematic popular wisdom in which it is said that the husband is a head, and the wife – a neck. That is the female essence and in the traditional epos is always identified not with humility and recognition of the power strong, and simple transferring of opposition on thinner level of motivation of acts. In this case important decisions are made proceeding from expediency. And this "expediency" just also becomes that intellectual motive which is generated by a weak half of mankind.
And establishment of balance in the family relations is often connected with the dying-away their phase when stability is substituted for simple lack of the basis for hotter oppositions which are the real parameter of healthy interrelation. That is the factor of "the world and love" in the family relations where there is "a silence and grace", is the direct instruction on the fact that in this cell of society completely there is no real feeling. Whatever one may do, and gender opposition in the natural essence is based on regular generation of such states when the different view on the same phenomena and events causes tension accumulation.
And the lack of such tension also is an eloquent indicator of artificiality, but not naturalness of the family relations. In that case one family member, by default, sides with another (deliberately or owing to weakness of own position). But then here completely there is no such concept as the "equal and mutually beneficial cooperation" which is at the head of any relations. It turns out that the tacit consent or regular unanimity concerning any questions of joint life directly indicates a firm priority of one of spouses.
And it is no secret, that the love excludes such painful states when one partner obediently carries out will of another, thereby confirming the passive role in these relations. Then the concept "equality" is leveled. Perhaps, because of such matrimonies there was also a rule when one loves, and another allows. Here the perverted form of the highest sensual manifestation is available.
Thus, for those couples which suspect something, but not absolutely understand what occurs, it is important to draw close attention to a condition of "the world and rest" in the family. The real family filled with love will never assimilate to the hypocritical and "thought-over" idyll in which there are no disputes, furious showdowns, scenes of jealousy and other attributes of hot chuvstvovaniye.
Only in the absence of energy of the relations (a format "the battery sat down") possibly the condition of rest equal to death. By the way, have any public relations to this principle (accumulation of tension of opposition) the most direct relation. And, considering the nature of opposite sexes, it is absolutely clear that opposition between the man and the woman has to be present always and everywhere. In this context it is important to understand that the passion as manifestation of this opposition has to be present at intimacy without fail.