People meet and leave - it is the law of life, and it is necessary to learn to endure losses with advantage. However sometimes happens that neither a talk, nor threats act on some former. He still loves you and intends to return in any ways.
Instruction
1. For certain you loved the former young man. He seemed to you clever, interesting, understanding. Why now he behaves as not too adequate guy? Have with it a heart-to-heart talk. Once this man was close to you. For certain you remember its strong and weak points, things which anger him, and what he considers correct. Let it know that your relations will have no continuation, and explain to him so that he understood. As a rule, when the girl gives detailed answers to all questions its former, that calms down and begins to cope with a grief alone.
2. Think whether you added oils to the fading love fire? It is possible that, leaving the gentleman, you in a fit of temper told that he did not give you flowers and paid not enough attention. Thereby you wounded male self-esteem, and here your being day and night is on duty at an entrance door with a bouquet in hands. He, in general, also does not want to return you. He just wants to lift the self-assessment. If you really want to get rid of the boyfriend, accept a bouquet and leave without mutual reproaches this time.
3. Present to persuasive "ex" of the new young man. If you did not manage to begin the relations with another yet, ask that this role was played by the friend. You can face three together being on the street or your new guy can answer the next call with requests to return. Presence of the new gentleman affects many men as a cold shower – it means that do not need it really any more.
4. If after all your tricks the calls from the thrown young man do not stop, think of replacing number of mobile. If you rent apartment, pay attention to other housing. You live in the – go for a week to parents or the girlfriend. Ignore messages in e-mail, you do not come to a balcony, hearing his appeals from the street. Very few people will continue prosecution if the victim does not react in any way.
5. Sometimes unbalanced persons who not just exasperate with calls and letters meet. They act by the principle "so do not get you to anybody", prosecutions and threats can be really frightening. Do not hesitate to write the application to the police in that case.