You at last met the man of the dream. You imagine a smart wedding dress which you will put on in the happiest day. Only he does not hurry to conduct you in the REGISTRY OFFICE. How to hint it about the desire to marry him?
1. Here it is necessary to work delicately not to frighten off the man and to be not be farther alone. It is necessary to accustom gradually him to a thought that it cannot do without you.
2. For this purpose begin with "prikarmlivaniye". Learn to cook several signature dishes and, inviting it to themselves, treat with something brand new. The man always likes to eat well. Prepare something concrete: meat, pies, vareniki.
3. Surround it with care and attention. If you already live together, daily offer it a fresh shirt or a t-shirt, you watch purity of its things. If he does not like to keep order, do not abuse it for the scattered socks and newspapers. Collect everything and put, and at the right moment resignedly give it.
4. Do not try to re-educate him. Admire him, even in the most insignificant occasion more often, you praise for the most usual trifle which he made in your general house: beat a shelf or took out garbage.
5. Listen to the elect more often. Even if he tells the moments of a football match, absolutely boring for you, or sums up the results of a conference. If little you understand in his speech, try to assent and nod more often, agreeing or being surprised (depending on the circumstances). He has to see in you the grateful listener and the understanding interlocutor.
6. If you are familiar with his mother, surely try to be pleasant to her. Only try to make it sincerely, otherwise she will feel falseness at once. Tell what clever son at it, you praise her clothes style, ask the recipe of a dish with which she treated you.
7. Invite on a visit happy married couples more often. Let your darling will look at their relations and will understand that marriage – it is not terrible at all. Visit friends who have small children, play together with it with the kid, perhaps, at it to appear desire to get same.
8. When he already finally gets used in your care and to attention, unexpectedly disappear for several days. Tell that you urgently should go to the aunt to other city. Let will understand how without you it is difficult and uncomfortable.
9. Be not imposed to it at all. You do not start conversations about desire to marry it. You will only frighten of this sticktoitiveness him, and he will understand that all your efforts and were in marrying it.