Today couples are often created not in heaven, and on the Internet. Social networks give the chance to meet girls irrespective of the city of residence. What to write to the girl not to appear in emergency? Simple five rules will help to make acquaintances on the Internet effective.
Rule 1. Be interested in the personality
Do you want to get acquainted with the girl in social network and you are already going to print "Hi"? No! No way. On the Internet – it is simple to write the dullest beginning of acquaintance "Hi". This way will fit, only if you want to get to emergency at once.
Before sending the message, study the page of the girl. Look at its avatars, at the kept pictures, at records on a wall, at groups in which it consists. Make the opinion on the identity of this person. And then already think up a greeting in which you write about what attracted you. Note the unusual ideas for a photo. Or tell that too you are fond of Brodsky's poetry if on its wall reposts of his verses. Show to the girl that you got acquainted with her page and that she interested you as the personality before writing.
Rule 2. Be an interesting interlocutor
It is not difficult at all! You remember if you wrote to the first, then and subjects for a conversation are looked for too by you. For a start it is possible to tell a little about himself and to ask the girl on her. It is not necessary to go deep, ask serious questions and to ask the girl about her last relations. It is the best of all to stop on hobbies. Usually people like to tell about a hobby. Show sincere interest to its occupations, try to find common interests.
Observe balance: it is only impossible to tell about himself, but also the girl should not arrange interrogation. It will be better if you a little tell about yourself, and then you will ask a question to the girl.
It is always good to finish the messages with a question – it means that the girl should not think out a subject for the following message. Therefore, the probability that she will answer you grows.
Sense of humour – the good assistant for those who want to get acquainted on the Internet. Proved: joint laughter brings together.
Rule 3. Do not bother
To scribble the message behind the message the whole day – the bad idea. Allocate for communication on the Internet about an hour a day. Do not vanish unexpectedly – before going to offline, say goodbye to the girl and agree when be written off next time.
Rule 4. Surround with attention
Girls like careful guys, and girls on the Internet – not an exception. Sincerely be interested, as its affairs what mood, wish kind morning and good night.
Rule 5. Forward – in real!
It is very good if you have an opportunity to meet in real. Do not tighten with the first meeting. But also you do not hurry. Milking the beginnings be convinced that communication in social network is interesting to both of you. Were convinced? Then forward!
What should not be done
- At once to arrange interrogation – we already spoke about it. You have a lovely communication in social network, and not a meeting in the investigator's office at all.
- It is sharp to approach. In the second the message was already written that you want to marry it and you ask how you will call the first son? In vain, the girl can be frightened and send you to the ignore list.
- It is constant to vanish from online. It will be pleasant if the interlocutor sharply tears off a conversation, not to read anybody messages or to answer week, and even year later.
- To demand a real meeting right now. Many girls need time before deciding to meet the guy in real.
- To complain of the problems. Even if you have their car and the small cart – reserve them for friends. Do not throw out everything on the girl with whom just got acquainted.
- To be persuasive. Everything is good moderately, do not bother the girl with the messages.
Follow these simple rules, and at you everything will turn out!