Many parents complain that their children are slovens. Do not wish to tidy up at themselves in the room, refuse to wash the dishes, scatter things everywhere. However children are not born with ability to bring order, they need to impart necessary skills. Therefore instead of abusing the child for a mess, it is better to think how to teach the son or the daughter to look after not only themselves, but also behind the housing. To make it it is real if to stock up with patience, and, above all – to set a positive example. Because hardly at the careless mom who forgot what is purity and an order the daughter neatnik will grow up …
Instruction
1. It is necessary to accustom the child to an order from early age. As a rule, children begin to show interest in mother's classes cleaning on the second year of life. You should not kill at them interest, to speak "depart, do not disturb!". Give to the child a small rag better, let too carries it on a floor or "wipes" a case. By means of these game movements your son or the daughter since childhood will get used to direct purity in the house.
2. For children it the boring occupation as cleaning, has to be associated with something pleasant. Therefore every party you can give "minute of purity". Do them in the form of a holiday: turn on the cheerful music, put a special Super-Chistyuli suit on the child (it can be just shorts and an undershirt, or fartuchek with a bandana, depending on what the kid does). As the captain (apartments), give to the superhero a task: to put all toys, to wipe dust, to wipe from a table … It is desirable that every evening your tasks on targeting of purity were different, otherwise the child will quickly get bored. Also you take away on cleaning game no more than 15 minutes. But – daily.
3. An order – too general concept for children, some do not understand what it has to consist of. Therefore facilitate to the child a task. You do not speak "bring order", and explain on points that it is necessary to make that in the house there was a purity. For example: at first wipe dust from shelves, then place on them books and toys, then put away clothes in a case and put it accurately … If your child already well reads, write him the plan for day and hang up it on a foreground. Especially well such accurate tasks acquire boys.
4. You have to become for the kid the main example on establishing order in the house. If you want the child to cease to litter space around, show it as it is necessary to do. You keep clean the apartment, and, above all – tide up in front of the son or the daughter. Otherwise they will grow in confidence that dust disappears and the dishes are washed by itself. Since early childhood during a priborka give them instructions: to give a scoop, to rinse a rag, to put into place the book, to water a flower from a watering can. With age tasks have to become complicated, but gradually. You should not protect the child from house work of years to ten, and then suddenly to attack on it with charges that it does nothing on the house.