You quarreled with darling, and everything in your life lost bright paints. For certain you even did not suspect earlier as strongly you are attached to him as painfully to lose it. Only the sincere repentance and full awareness of own fault can help to return rest to your soul and, perhaps, to keep the relations with your beloved.
Instruction
1. Realize that your apologies can and remain to be groundless and not to reach heart of your beloved. In certain cases it is senseless to apologize. Mean and nasty acts real men forgive seldom. But if degree of your fault allows to think that you will be able to implore for his forgiveness, then act. Perhaps, you will be able to find rest, having let know darling that you completely realized the fault.
2. Do not think that the attempt elicit forgiveness at the blessed can humiliate your feminine values somehow. Absolutely on the contrary, if you are sure of full innocence, then your spirit only emphasizes need of your repentance.
3. Apologize in time. That your apologies were listened and accepted, choose a right moment. Often, when the person is strongly offended, he needs to calm down and understand a situation, the feelings and emotions. Therefore give him a little time and use it that your attempt to apologize really was sincere, convincing and left you chance of continuation of the relations.
4. Accurately formulate the fault. You have to ask forgiveness, specifically focusing attention of your interlocutor on the misses and mistakes. Otherwise your darling it will become simple to listen not to you, and all your apologies will develop into the new conflict.
5. Take part in his life, become the loyal friend. It is very effective way to normalize the relations. It works in case the causes of your quarrel are not so serious, and your communication is capable to lift you on the following step of the relations. Here it is important to let know to darling that to you his interests and desires are not indifferent.
6. Act with a smile. It is difficult for some people to express the repentance by means of words. Psychologists note that the sincere smile significantly increases chances of receiving forgiveness. In such situation it is possible just having taken liked for hand to glance to it in eyes and to smile. But consider that then to you all the same it is necessary to speak to the man about the unworthy speeches or behavior to implore at him for forgiveness.