Sometimes our family relations become complicated so that marriage appears under the threat of crash. It becomes harder and harder to stand each other. It seems that there are no forces and, the main thing, desires to understand darling. However the majority of marriages can be kept, it is only necessary to try very much. Try to conform to the following rules, and at you everything will turn out.
Instruction
1. Try to remember your first meeting, the first appointment. Everything was so beautiful and romantic. And your wedding? Couple it was not happier than you! As you rejoiced to the firstborn's birth! Remember its first steps, to delight there was no limit. Thus, the first rule: remember only good.
2. Think: did you love once? What changed? Everything was good, but household difficulties complicated your relations. You just were frightened of difficulties: household and financial. There was an accumulation of a negative. Quarrels were aggravated, the possibility of your further joint life is called into question. But you do not hurry. Remember that you overcame all difficulties together. Think how many them still ahead. And having only kept marriage, you together will be able to overcome them. Think that you not only loved once, but also now you love. Rule second: the most important – your love.
3. You remember, problems – not a reason for a divorce. Do not show negative emotions. Build up the relationship so that your soulmate understood that you are ready for the positive solution of a question. Be patient. This third rule.
4. You remember, for preservation of the relations it is necessary to go on compromises in many respects. You speak with each other quietly, without excessive emotions, frankly. Be objective and recognize the mistakes. This fourth rule.
5. If independently the problem of preservation of family does not manage to be solved, address psychologists or psychotherapists. The main thing is to visit the expert together and with a positive spirit. You remember, result of your actions - preservation of your marriage.