Recently it seemed that your family is ideal: you just radiated love and happiness. But there passes time, cares, monotony and life lean, and mutual reproaches and claims already begin, offenses and irritation collect. Many couples make the decision to leave, without having managed to overcome crisis of the family relations. If you want to keep family - there are many ways not to allow a gap.
Instruction
1. You do not save offense in yourself, frankly and quietly talk with each other, share what disturbs you - it is necessary to understand in what a key part of the problem. During such confidential conversations of the spouse also find a compromise.
2. It is not necessary to lie each other, try to hide nothing from the partner. The lie has pernicious effect on the family relations, besides, any lie will open sooner or later. If there was a treason, it is important to understand - whether the further relations are possible? Would you likeWould you likeWould you like to keep them and to live by new rules without a lie and unfaithfulness? Only be extremely honest with each other, then it will be easier to make the right decision. It is not necessary to involve friends, parents, children, and relatives in your conflicts, try not to let without emergency other people in your family relations.
3. You remember personal space of each other. Let each of you will have even if small, but interests and pleasures. The spouse it can have a hunting, fishing or sport, and the wife has a favourite hobby or meetings with girlfriends in cafe.
4. Touch to each other. Gentle touches express not only love and also care and attention. Not without reason practically all lovers to hold hands, it is a peculiar gesture of tenderness and participation.
5. You should not forget also about importance of sexual life of spouses. Make every effort that to adjust it. Try to avoid monotony in intimate relations, experiment, and realize sexual fantasies of each other.
6. Try to spend more often time together, take a walk in the city, organize a picnic outdoors, go to the cinema or in restaurant, it is obligatory at the same time communicating on different subjects, or arrange a romantic dinner of the house and make love. Such days very much bring together spouses and strengthen marriage. If you have children – arrange a joint campaign in a zoo, circus, on a children's performance or just on the playground.