Art of a message a conversation was always appreciated, often only by means of a conversation it is possible to make friends, to impress favourably colleagues or the girl. But, unfortunately, not all own similar skill therefore let's consider how to keep up the conversation and what receptions can be used to pass for the interesting interlocutor.
How to learn to keep up the conversation on any subject?
The first that should be made, it to learn to ask questions. Psychologists proved long ago that it is the most interesting to tell to the person about himself therefore learn the list of neutral questions which the new acquaintance can set. For example, ask it, than he is fond where he works what actions attends in free time. Do not forget to support a benevolent situation, for this purpose use phrases: It, probably, is very interesting, to work as the economist, or Great! I like to go to photo exhibitions too.
Now think what subjects are most interesting and familiar to you. Let's say the person is fond of automotive industry, and knows many facts from this area. Of course, voicing technical features of a certain make of the car, he will hardly interest the interlocutor, but, but having listed 2-3 interesting moments, it will be able how to keep up the conversation with the girl, and to tell a little it about itself(himself) and the hobbies.
It can look so – And I like to read about new models of cars, for example, recently I learned that the Thai school students develop models of race cars for Formula 1, and the best sketch can be taken as a basis for creation of the real car.
One more reception by means of which it is possible how to keep up the conversation on any subject, not to pass for the ignoramus is, strangely enough, honesty. If the interlocutor speaks with you about something absolutely to you unclear or unfamiliar, it is possible to tell so – An exhibition of impressionists it, probably, very interesting, it is a pity that I know nothing about such direction of art. Perhaps you tell me a little about the favourite artists and about the exhibition?.