Having kept the appointment with the attractive and interesting man, some women feel in the plate at once and easily conduct a conversation, and other women, on the contrary, are confused and are perplexed what to speak with the man about and how to keep up the conversation that the appointment was successful, and the woman seemed relaxed and direct. During the conversation with the man the woman has to be able to interest him.
Instruction
1. One of the most popular subjects which are brought up by interlocutors on an appointment is the subject of love, romanticism and sex sounded directly or indirectly. Discussing this subject hints or direct formulations, you let the man know that he is a subject of your imaginations, and you will interest him, thanks to the eroticism.
2. Never you speak in this way about the former lovers and do not ask the man about his former women. Try not to finish phrases, leaving them unfinished – intrigue the man. Connect a nonverbal element of communication to the words – flirt with the help of gestures and a mimicry.
3. Do not forget to be interested in hobbies of the man – ask him the questions concerning his interests even if you do not understand subjects which he loves. Show the participation and interest, give to the man the chance to be uttered before the grateful listener. Having noticed that you respect his hobbies, the man will like to you gratitude and warm feelings.
4. Take an interest in the past of the man – let he will tell you about the childhood, about what he lived earlier, about the parents and close people. It will allow it to plunge into sentimental memoirs, and to you – to learn about it more. Achieve that the man, communicating with you, told about pleasant emotions which he experienced to other women and the friends – unconsciously he will transfer these emotions to you. Listen to the story by the man with understanding and gratitude.
5. If the man asks you about something, do not give terse answers – try to answer as much as possible in detail and naturally, but at the same time do not tighten the reasonings. The conversation has to go in the form of dialogue, but not a monologue.
6. Show an initiative and carry on a conversation to the course necessary to you, leading and allowing the man to tell about himself as much as possible. Do not forget about visual contact – you look in the face to the man, talking to him, smile, agree with his words. If the situation allows, involve in touch communication as the tactile contact will even more bring together you.