All know that to force to fall in love with the person it is impossible – but many people do not know in what art of love and harmonious relationship consists, and dream to learn this art. Therefore you can learn to love the person, having enclosed a certain amount of time, forces and own internal resources in the relations. You can create love of the dream if you do not wait for it, without doing anything, and will begin to work and realize the desires.
Instruction
1. To learn to love, you need to have patience, persistence and readiness for constant advance. If you want to create really harmonious relationship, learn to appreciate the person about yourself – you do not treat him as to function, and do not exploit him.
2. Try to become necessary to the partner – be attentive to his wishes, thoughts and feelings, and in reply the partner will be attentive to your experiences. Be interested in inner world of the partner – it will allow to reduce misunderstanding and will increase degree of your mutual trust.
3. Be sincere and open – having only opened to other person, you will be able to see mutual openness and some feelings from his party.
4. Learn to give disinterestedly to darling the feelings, and accept in exchange what he gives you. If to remember it it is constant, the relations will constantly quicken, and you will notice that the love does not fade, and negative emotions between you becomes less.
5. Do not think only of yourself – care not only for own interests, but also for the interests of the partner. Help him, be interested in its affairs and problems, take care. You share the thoughts and the ideas with the person, and he will meet requirements of you, showing more and more trust.
6. Learn to approach reasonably the solution of the problems arising between you – at quarrels and the conflicts take the first step to reconciliation, try to understand the reasons of disagreements and in joint discussion to eliminate them.
7. Find those lines which unite, but do not divide you – you will notice that it is much more these lines and that really pulls you to each other. Such approach gives rise to mutual understanding in the relations.
8. Remember that the person about you always remains a riddle – open new lines of his character, try to look at the partner in a new way, be surprised and rejoice to changes which happen in it, so, and in you.
9. The love has to cause in you a feeling of inspiration, and it is possible only when you constantly feel something new and unusual, and only when you mutually support identity each other.