The relations with darling have to bring joy and happiness. The girl is obliged to feel favourite and desired. If instead of smiling and shining happiness, she constantly worries and sheds tears, so these relations are doomed. And what if it is impossible to leave to her too? The love or pity for the guy force it to remain with it and to continue the tortures. Time to tell a word came "will be enough" and to begin a new wonderful life.
Instruction
1. So, you want to leave the guy. Think, this final decision or you just want to frighten it that it changed the attitude towards you. You have to understand accurately what you wish. If you at each quarrel threaten it with the leaving and after that to remain, he will cease to perceive your words seriously. You will be for it no more, than an empty phrase.
2. Weigh all merits and demerits of your young man. Present that you married him. Whether you are ready to live with him all life, to give birth to him to children? He will be able adequately to bring up them? Whether it will turn out to provide at him family? If you are sure that in the future he will turn your life into the real nightmare, run! You still have a chance everything to change.
3. Tell the guy about the decision, looking to it in eyes. You should not leave by means of SMS messages, calls or the Internet. You were together, be respectful to it. Do not lie to it. You do not say that you want to leave for some time, to live a little separately and to consider everything. Tell how is. You leave forever. Return will not be back. Give the reason, it has to understand the mistakes that it is more them not to make.
4. Do not listen to his arrangements. Let him beg you to return, let though cry. Do not trust its promises if he is not able to execute them. You already very well know him, you remember what is cost by his words. Do not make a mistake of most of girls – never feel sorry for the man.
5. Do not promise to remain friends. Your friendship will very quickly develop into the new relations which will end also quickly, as well as began. Do not spend on it the time, do not come across more in its trap.
6. Think of what life waits for you. You will become free, will be able to be engaged in all affairs which did not manage to make, meeting the guy. You will have time for meetings with girlfriends, for improvement of the appearance, a learning of foreign languages, etc. And there will pass not enough time, and you will meet really worthy young man who will not begin to upset you and will make you happy.
7. If the ex-boyfriend all the same does not lag behind, take measures. Do not you want him to pursue you all the time? Replace the phone number. Do not respond to its messages on the Internet. If it comes to you home, insistently ask it not to do more than it. Ask the father to talk to him if he does not understand. As a last resort, threaten with police, if the guy does not perceive what he is told, he can be mentally unstable.
8. Be careful, make only the correct decisions. Leave beautifully and forever, and your happiness will not keep itself waiting!