Most often men are the reason of women's unfaithfulness. If the husband does not pay to the wife due attention if he ceased to notice in her the woman long ago or if itself already brought the girlfriend on the party, his spouse begins to seek consolation on a shoulder of other man.
1. That did not provoke marital infidelity from your beloved, having learned about it, the man has to decide for himself as to him to live further. If you were comprehended by this fate, do not hurry to rush to extremes at once. If you snatch on the wife with interrogations and threats, most likely, nothing good from this will leave. She either will continue to lie, or will pack a suitcase and will leave to the lover.
2. For a start sort out yourself and solve whether you want to continue to live with this woman. Try to find the true reason of this unfaithfulness. Think of what you did not so. You have to learn what was not enough for your woman and why she decided on treason. If you want to improve the relations with the wife and to give up as a bad job her communication with the lover, do it gradually and imperceptibly. You should not open all cards and to say about what all of you know.
3. Surround your wife with attention and care which she so needs. Offer her joint rest somewhere far, in the cozy town in which she will forget about the communication with other man. Understand if you are able to give to the wife everything that it is necessary for her in the emotional plan, need and desire will not go to the party at her just. Become the romantic again. You can invite the darling to appointments as you did it once long ago, to start over again looking after her as in youth, to buy gifts and to do surprises. Women appreciate care and heat and are ready to reciprocate.
4. If your self-esteem is wounded too strongly and you just do not find the reasons for which other man was necessary for your woman, you can tell her that you know about treachery. If you were always an exemplary family man, did not go to the party and carried the wife on hands, but it began to change you, can safely file for a divorce. Most likely, this woman just does not love you and never loved, otherwise she would appreciate your actions and attention and would hesitate on commission of such base and mean act.
5. Always you remember what women change the husbands only in two cases: with despair or from dislike. In the first case - it is completely your fault therefore to you to decide whether it is necessary to save the relations. In the second case there are no right and is not present guilty, just to you not on the way with this woman, time to leave therefore it will be better to take this plunge at once as soon as you learned about what the wife changes you will come sooner or later, without loving. So you will have more chances to leave with highly raised head and to find the real soulmate in this world.