Though the modern relations between young men and girls became simpler and equal, some unspoken rules nevertheless are followed still. So, it is considered that the guy has to invite the girl to the first appointment. If your elect does not pay attention to you, then you should help a little it and to make so that it had a desire to invite you to an appointment.
1. That such desire appeared at that person who is pleasant to you, it is necessary to get acquainted closer and to interest him in itself. The most checked and reliable way is to start talking to it about what interests him. For this purpose learn from those people to whom it is close, about his hobbies. Get acquainted with these subjects and address it for consultation on this question. Such interest for it will be quite natural, it is keen on this subject therefore to you it is necessary not only to listen to the answer to a question but also to set to it some more specifying. Ask it consent to further consultations, and he already soon, of course, will draw close attention to you – always pleasantly to meet not only the adherent, but also the pleasant girl.
2. If you managed to learn nothing about his hobbies and interests, think up other occasion to address it. It has to be quite natural way to draw its attention – ask a question of his opinion on some occasion – to the last film, a computer game, a performance of music band. Keep up the conversation, listening to his opinion and showing as far as it is interesting to you and coincides with your thoughts. But you do not force an event, perhaps, this reception will need to be repeated several times that he, at last, made out what you a treasure and as with you it is interesting.
3. If you are familiar long ago, but he does not notice your interest, try to show an initiative – ask it to take you home or just to walk as you have a bad mood. Find an occasion to stay together, ask it for the help in something. Try to tell it something interesting that can draw its attention to your person. But do not forget that your purpose – get to talking the guy. Let's express to him and encourage his jokes, be just pleasant interlocutor and the young man will want to meet you still repeatedly.