Jealousy - it is normal if, of course, it is not enough. ""Is jealous - means loves"" - so speak in the people. And if are jealous of the past of the darling, then it is already psychological problem which needs to be solved, otherwise it can pass into pathology. It is possible to get rid of jealousy of the past, psychologists so claim.
Instruction
1. First, it is necessary to reconcile to the fact that your darling had a past. If it was, then from it not to get to anywhere. But your person chose you, and this already much means. What was, was. Much more important what is at the moment. To be jealous of what is not present any more - silly.
2. Some husbands constantly compare the wives to the former girlfriends. For wives pleasant in it it is not enough. But for the general wellbeing of family it is necessary to reconcile to it for some time. And then it is worth talking to the husband, to tell him that similar comparisons bring you unpleasant feelings. If the person treats you with love, he will surely consider your wish. Only hysterics and anguishes are not necessary, it will not lead to anything good.
3. Sometime your husband himself also will cease to compare you to the former women. It will occur surely. But while it did not happen, try to distract. Find to yourself work to liking, let it will be some hobby or training in a foreign language. Anyway, from it to you there will be only an advantage. It will be much more interesting to your loved one to communicate with you, and he will surely cease to compare you to someone.
4. And it can simply be not sure you of your forces? Then the situation needs to be changed urgently. Learn to prepare if were not able still, replace a hairstyle or the image in general. Meet your husband from work with a new hairstyle and a tasty dinner on a table. When you have a confidence in the forces, you will have less occasions to be jealous the husband of the past.
5. If nothing helps, and you all the same are jealous of the past of the husband, then address the psychologist. He will help you to understand a key part of the problem which, perhaps, sits deeply in your consciousness, and you will not be able to cope with it.