Some women because of fear of loneliness continue to maintain the relations which ceased suit them. Such position deprives the girl of the right for personal happiness in the future.
Plans for the future
If it is difficult to you to break off the unpromising relations, think of the future. While you remain with the partner, cling to illusions, your life will be former. To adjust private life, to construct the new union with other man, you need to leave the improper young man, to understand itself, to draw conclusions to the future, to experience unfortunate love.
Perhaps, you hope that over time in your relations with the young man something will improve. If the fact is that you do not suit one another on characters, outlooks on life, seriously you disperse in vision of the future, most likely, not to correct anything any more. In this case your optimism is inappropriate, is even pernicious.
You should not doubt that you are worthy the best. You have the right for the normal relations and great, mutual love. If you lost self-confidence, own appeal and femininity, perhaps, the fault for it lies with your partner. Especially it is necessary to leave him until it spoiled to you life at all.
Loneliness pluses
Be not afraid to be any time one. In freedom there is a mass of pluses. Especially well such respite after failed affair affects female mentality. Only you should not look for the new gentleman at once. Until you calm down and will be ready to the full-fledged relations, nothing good will leave your haste. Give yourself time to reconstruct and endure a gap. Live a little for yourself. Now you do not need to look after, make for anybody a dinner when you are not hungry. You should not consider opinion of the partner upon the next purchase or the choice of the place and time of rest. Enjoy personal liberty. You can attend any actions what you want, to meet friends, to vanish in the whole evenings, to leave on all days off. Accept this period as a gift. Then you will remember this time with heat in heart if, of course, intelligently dispose of it. Take care of the own life, strengthen the health, carry out work on appearance. Now you have an opportunity to more pay attention to personal care. Update clothes, try a new hairstyle. Meet new people, travel. Find some new hobby, be engaged in creativity or a new type of fitness for example. You study something new. Of course, also the girl consisting in the relations can be engaged in all this. But if you the free woman, at you are more time and forces for this purpose.