Some women nearly with tears complain: cannot force any ways the husbands in any way. Further there is the longest list of claims as small, type: to help with cleaning, to be engaged with the child, to do small repair on the house, to regularly take out garbage, and large: to be engaged at last in apartment renovation, to buy them a new fur coat or a piece of jewelry, to take family abroad. Generally, stubborn husbands got! How it is possible to motivate the man to make something that is very necessary for the woman?
Instruction
1. Remember: any sharp words and reproaches! Like, I already under myself do not feel legs, and you, the idler. Do you tell children the instructive parable about the magic word "please"? And why you forget its all the time? Few what man will resist against a polite request moreover with specification: "You me so would help these!"
2. Do you want that husbands helped you about the house? Lawful and natural desire. Again, quiet and polite tone distribute duties: "I will make that, and you, please, make it …" Again, with specification: "It will be easier for you, than me, you are stronger!" Options: "You are higher growth!" (if it is about wiping dust on cases and the top regiments), "You are such skillful!" (if it is necessary to inspire him on any small repair). Remember: men adore too when they are praised even if it is about statement of the known facts by all – for example that the average man is stronger and higher than the average woman.
3. Well, and if it is about large expenditure, for example, about expensive gift, or a trip to the resort. Do not seek regardless of obstacles to the purpose at all! It also is silly, and just it does not befit women. Act "more thinly", roundabout ways. Such beginning of a conversation has magic effect: "I understand, of course, that it is very expensive …" A little confusion in a voice, looked down – and the man in most cases willingly will agree: expensively, of course, but business is worth it! If only his darling was happy and did not worry!
4. If you want him to make something on houses, just tell: "You at me such good owner! Just clever fingers! And our crane broke. Will you make?" Believe, after these words, he will go to do, he does not wish that the opinion on it changed. Always act softly and without any reproaches.