The marriage is not only a serious and responsible step for future spouses, but also the biggest dream for many women. But men often do not share this desire and do not hurry to an altar at all. Before solving this problem, it is necessary to understand in what the reason of their inaction.
Instruction
1. If you already rather long time meet, and, maybe, and live together, and and so everything suits your man, and he does not even think to legalize the relations, then, most likely, he is just a hunter by the nature and perceives you as production which he already won. In this case you need to use the best efforts to prove it the return. That is that you not its property that you have both other interests and the life. Think up to yourself one or several hobbies. Try to take the time to the maximum. And so that it gave pleasure to you. Thus, time which you spend together will be reduced, and he will feel a lack of communication with you. Try to be more in an environment of people and to stay at home less. If the man sees that you are interested in other persons, his interest in you will sharply increase. Of course, you should not flirt openly with other men if you are not sure of proper response of the soulmate. Besides, not superfluous will be together at weddings at friends and relatives. Perhaps, the atmosphere of joy and fun will infect it, and thoughts of your man will begin to work in the direction, necessary for you.
2. If your man – not Julius Caesar also cannot concentrate on several things at the same time (for example if he works on the important project or writes the scientific article), then you need to wait. The main thing not to miss the moment of "break", otherwise one important issue will be succeeded by another, and he will not be able to think of a marriage on you again.
3. If your darling before starting a family, wants to buy the apartment, a car and other, you should discuss carefully with him it and to explain that when you get married, it will be together simpler to you to fulfill all wishes in reality and it will be so much more interesting.
4. If the man is afraid to marry because of changes, responsibility and loss of the precious freedom, you need to push at first him to cohabitation or just ordinary holiday in few weeks. During this time try to conduct together life and also not to limit its freedom that is if he wishes to go with friends to a bath, it is not necessary to make scandal. It will only frighten off it. And here if all of you make correctly, your darling will understand that changes which will happen in his life after the wedding are not so terrible.