How to respond to platitude

How to respond to platitude

Not always women derive pleasure from communication with men. Rudeness, pressure, the increased tone, - all this is unpleasant, but it is rather transferred. However when the man begins to use offensive language or to utter frank platitude. For many intelligent women it something humiliating, and is not always possible to respond to platitude.

Instruction

1. It is necessary to distinguish platitude of the loader and platitude of professor. In the first case of people just in a different way cannot express including to put sympathy differently, than dirty into words, it is difficult for the person. Regret such man and do not show the just indignation. If you with such person are not crossed constantly, it is the best of all not to offend the one who and so on life was not lucky. Therefore ignore all platitude. Pretend that you just did not notice.

2. Another matter – platitude from the lips of the person formed and developed. This conscious desire to offend you and to humiliate. What to do in this situation how to answer? The best option – do not react in general, having made the face poker. So recommend to do to the victims of children's "teasers" - not to react, then to interlocutors it will be uninteresting to utter platitudes. The purpose is to cause anger or confusion if from you do not wait for reaction once, the probability that next time this man will tell something similar, sharply decreases.

3. If to you utter platitudes in public, it becomes difficult to be silent. If after all there is a wish to answer something, answer, only answers need to be prepared in advance. At hints on sexual intercourse it is possible to tell what to dream not harmfully. If the man is more senior than you on age for about ten years and more, tell that you do not like antiques. The educated person can answer that at him, it seems, with sex full seams because he also thinks only of it. It is possible with a faint smile to tell that concerning some men Darwin was, it seems, right.

4. Right after the statement of the crown phrase, try to flee the meeting place with the fan to utter platitudes. It is whenever possible necessary not to include in a circle of the acquaintances similar persons at all. Even if you feel socially not prestigious, you have no sufficient education, beauty and so on, it cannot be the cause to tolerate nasty behavior of some men. You stand bigger, time find time to look for answers to the questions and to change something.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


Print