Between the loving people the harmony not always reigns. Happen both misunderstanding, and a quarrel. In the most hard cases business reaches a gap. Very often the guy puzzles then over a question: how to return the girlfriend? How to restore the former relations?
Instruction
1. As it is paradoxical, begin with a question: whether in the business you want to return the girl? What moves you - a sincere regret about the happened gap, love for the girl? Or the hurt pride: "Me, such clever, strong, interesting and suddenly stopped loving!" In the second case do not make an attempt to reconciliation better - nothing good from this will leave.
2. Most precisely, objectively and impartially estimate both own behavior, and behavior of the girl. Because of what you left. Having established the cause of a quarrel, draw from it all necessary conclusions not to make the same mistakes in the future.
3. Before making attempts of return of darling, wait some time better - simply that the girl "cooled down" that emotions settled. If the gap happened on your initiative: then the girl especially sharply feels offense.
4. Trying to reconcile with the girl, do not impose her the society at all, do not follow on heels, do not press on pity, a pier "To me without you it is so bad!". It, most likely, will result in opposite result. Remember: women very seldom love those men for whom they feel sorry.
5. Instead try to draw its attention again, to become for it the irreplaceable person. Act patiently, delicately and unostentatiously. From time to time you call, send SMS messages, congratulate on holidays. Offer the help if in it there is a need. Generally, act according to a saying: "the drop of water and a stone sharpens". You should not hurry with the offer: "And let's start everything over again!". Let's her "ripen" to this thought.
6. If in the happened gap there is a most part of your fault, it is necessary to recognize frankly it and to apologize. If "major role" was played by the girl, you should show generosity and not to mention even it. She for certain will estimate such sensitivity.
7. And if the former relations were restored, value with each other, do not put love at vain risk. Very well one wise man told: "Even the genius can be mistaken, but only the fool persists in the delusions and does not learn lessons from mistakes".