How to return the girl after parting

How to return the girl after parting

Sometimes in life there are such situations when you are sorry about deeds, for example, you dumped the girlfriend, and after a while understood that you cannot live without it. Heart is broken from melancholy and emptiness. Sometimes and parting happens at the initiative of the fair sex. Not important, for what reason it occurred, the main thing is that you want to return it and to start everything with a clean slate.

Instruction

1. At first think attentively whether really you want to return it. Analyze your last relations, the reasons which entailed parting. Make assessment to your relations in general. Weigh all pros and cons. Can something was not enough in your relations, for example, the former passion ceased, everything became ordinary and gray.

2. You should not be humiliated and beg her to return - it you will only push away her from yourself. Do not promise "gold mountains". Remember that the main thing – actions, but not words.

3. Make a pause. Do not begin to lean on it at once, both you, and her need to rethink a situation, to understand as far as you are important and dear for each other.

4. Try to control the emotions. Do not accuse of parting girl, you will better look for shortcomings of yourself, try to correct them, to eradicate. If you blame the beloved for soul, then will not be able to overcome offense, rage, so the relations will be tense.

5. Remember the beginning of your novel. Try to understand for what the girl fell in love with you: for originality in courtings, cheerfulness, cheerfulness? After you sustained a pause, present it a bouquet, perhaps, you did not do it long ago. And it is better to make it in the form of a surprise, buy flowers, enclose there a note in which give it a compliment and by all means write that it is the best. Ask to give it flowers of your acquaintance.

6. Invite her to a romantic appointment, and the invitation can be specified everything in the same note which is in a bouquet of flowers. For an appointment choose the place where you will be able quietly to talk.

7. In certain cases the relations are "eaten" by domestic squabbles, for example, you come from work, tired, and your talk comes down to what you retell the working day. "Run" from it. On an appointment you speak only about positive, choose those subjects for a conversation which will be pleasant to it. Show to darling that you love her and are ready to change for the better.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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