When really dear person, the first motivation of many - to return the past leaves. That to return to the man the darling, it is necessary to do laborious work on itself.
How to define the gap reason
To return the left person means to stop the relations in their old look and to begin new. Only this way it is possible to achieve success because in the present provision your relations were insolvent.
After a gap first of all analyze your situation, try to identify the cause of the event. Remember the most frequent claims which were stated in your address by darling. Most likely, in them hints also are.
The wellbeing in the relations of the man and woman depends on balance between mutual inquiries and return. What did your girl most often complain of? What qualities could not accept in you? It will not be obligatory one global reason, most likely there was a gradual accumulation of dissatisfaction. Rather insignificant irritant that the person in a condition of tension broke. As threw you, it is worth changing the character to you. It is hard process which it is necessary to approach with all responsibility. Remember that you have to want changes in yourself sincerely. Reveal the weak moments and work on them if there is desire – there will be also success. Several times think, whether these should beginning to be engaged. If you do not achieve changes and will meet with the girl, such relations will reach a deadlock again.
She agreed to a meeting. How to behave?
If you managed to spend productively time behind introspection, arrange to you a meeting. You have to show very clearly that you became really other person. But you do not blow about it directly, it will look affectedly and unnaturally. Independent recognition by the girl of the happened changes is the key to success. In a word, she has to begin to doubt in correctness of the decision. In a conversation with it surely speak positively of your last relations, recognize them as valuable to yourself. There is one cunning trick which can be used for check of her true feelings to you. When you managed to come at least into friendly contact with it, make the following. Confidentially report to it that you plan the new relations. But you meanwhile are in thoughts because could not recover after a gap yet. Such course can push the girl to active actions if her feelings are still strong. Consider that not all girls are motivated by a competition situation. Do not apply this trick in case it has masochistic bents. It will just recede aside.