How to return friendship

How to return friendship

In life there is anything. Even between the closest friends suddenly there can be an alienation. Still yesterday, appear, were do not pour water, and today quarreled, told each other many bitter, offensive words. And, as in the majority of similar cases also happens, the quarrel happened because of some nonsense which even is not standing attention. It is very sad situation.

Instruction

1. First of all calm down. It is quite natural that participants of a quarrel are overflowed by emotions, and in such state it is easily possible to do new nonsenses. At first cool down, and then think how to find a way to reconciliation.

2. It is unpleasant to you, it is even a shame to remember that, what has happened? Cannot you understand how in general there was your quarrel? With the probability of 99% your friend has just the same feelings now and likewise puzzles, trying to think: what fly bit both of you. And from here a natural conclusion follows: both of you for certain will not refuse reconciliation. The question consists only in the one who will take the first step.

3. Here it is necessary to reject resolutely hurt pride. It is clear, that it seems to you: the main share of fault for a quarrel lies on your friend. He unsuccessfully joked or told not that, either not so looked, or not so understood your witty joke (more precisely, absolutely did not understand it). Yes, the person can pay off and accuse others, such is his nature. But remember: the first step to reconciliation is taken by cleverer. So overcome yourself and go to be reconciled to the friend. As a last resort, call.

4. Do not you want to admit the guilt? At you language just does not turn to pronounce a word "excuse"? That, and it is clear. Well, so find some neutral phrase to start a conversation. For example, with a penitential and sad look stretch: "Oh, well we also did affairs". And sadly make a helpless gesture: like, itself I cannot understand what on us found. You can begin a conversation so: "We are on friendly terms so many years, so many times of each other helped out. And suddenly. As if some delusion. Let's forget all nonsense which was told each other". Almost for certain your friend willingly will agree.

5. Do not delay with reconciliation. Because the more time will pass from the date of your ridiculous quarrel, the it will be heavier then to force itself to come to the friend or just to call it. Well and, of course, try not to quarrel any more!

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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