Couple is in the relations for a long time, and in intimate proximity the former passion died away. It occurs because both half already know all shortcomings of each other, and it is the repellent moment in sex. Intimacy happens, but seldom and there is no former spark and passion. How to diversify sex that it gave pleasure to both parties?
Even if the harmony reigns in couple, spouses take of each other the hint, there are no quarrels and scandals - it is not a guarantee of good sex. It is possible to learn below how to improve the relations in this area and to give each other pleasure.
It is necessary to listen to himself, the body
Now there is a fashion for a beautiful, sound body. Many young people are engaged in daily trainings, improving the body and also decorate eyes, lips and another. The reasons for which people seek for change of are individual.
Nevertheless, self-improvement will not be able to affect sexual life in any way. Perhaps couple should experiment and look for that type of occupations which we will do them good. For example, can pull to dance, improve an extension or to go to classes of yoga.
It is necessary to feel what is asked by a body and to pay to this occupation special attention.
Experimenting in intimate proximity
Many couples engender the traditions, for example, the celebration of anniversary, a St. Valentine's Day, new year. At the same time, as a rule, the scenario for such holidays remains invariable. In sex too everything proceeds the same.
Time of changes
It is quite probable that couple needs to talk, learn, the partner can wants to change somehow the relations, to bring others, brighter, paints. Such changes will affect sex life to the best.
It is necessary to be the initiator
If the girl is not an initiator of intimacy, then such actions can irritate her. It is worth overcoming the constraint and to take all initiative.
It is necessary to learn to speak "no"
Often there is such concept as "conciliatory sex". But it is possible, the girl did not forgive the partner yet and is not ready to intimate proximity. In this case, it is better to refuse, explaining the reasons of the refusal. If not to do it, then, of course, there will be a disgust for sex and it will not want to repeat it again and again.
Once sex finds necessary amount of time
People often do work, household chores and do not give intimacy more than several minutes a week. It is connected with the fact that sex is not necessary on the first place in the priority list. Because of it there can also be an unwillingness.
It is worth revealing the strong sexual parties
If such are found, then you should not forget about them. They will help to reveal and derive pleasure. It is worth remembering these feelings of awareness of the sexuality and to use them if necessary.