More often the family is left by the husband, but not the wife. And for this reason treachery of a weak half is perceived more tragically. The woman creating a cosiness and tranquility in the house is perceived often nearly as a decor subject. And its leaving pulls down habitual life of the man. At first he can not realize all weight of a problem even. But later a short period nevertheless will understand, loss is how heavy.
Instruction
1. Take a small break. For example, for 3-4 weeks. Tear off all contacts with the ex-wife. Do not communicate with her even by phone. During this time try to change to the best. Play sports, begin to attend additional courses or find new work. Not superfluous will be to update clothes and to replace a hairstyle. The former spouse has to see you from the new party.
2. Begin to analyze all mistakes which you made during your communication. For certain the spouse told you for what reason she leaves. If a problem in you, then try to change. For example, if the ex-wife accused you of inertness and laziness, become more active person. Of course, it is pretty difficult to change itself for the short period of time therefore for achievement of result you can address the psychologist.
3. If the spouse left because of feelings to other man, become better, than he. Try to prove to her that you more worthy candidate. Once she was your soulmate, so you were attractive to it. Try to attract interest of the spouse again.
4. At communication with the former soulmate do not make quarrels and scandals. You have to communicate quietly. Even if it provokes you to the conflict, leave from it. Give the conversation another turn.
5. Do to the former spouse pleasant surprises. It can be a bouquet of flowers, a pleasant gift or just well spent evening. Solve its small problems and you do not ask for it anything. Transfer your relations to other course. Prove to it that you have no claims, and you are ready to communicate with it as the friend. In a month of quiet communication it is possible to talk to it about your relations. As often as possible create situations which will remind her of the pleasant minutes spent with you. In your life there was a lot of good. And if the woman regularly remembers it, then she will want to return the relations soon.
6. Prove to it that you love it. For this purpose you need to tell regularly her about the feelings, to go on compromises and not to swear at her at all. As they say, water sharpens a stone not by the force, but blow frequency. And your task to be near always, to constantly prove the feelings and to wait when the former spouse returns back.