It is difficult to return the man after parting, but it is possible. And here the gap reason is not important, it is necessary to approach this question just systematically. Think over the action plan to trifles and start.
Instruction
1. Before return surely weigh all pluses and minuses of continuation. The relations will be as earlier, and perhaps and worse. Completely he will not be able to forget treason, so there will be reproaches, claims. You are ready to such behavior? Would you likeWould you like to create something serious on such basis? Feelings will pass, and bitterness of quarrels will remain. Weigh everything pros and cons.
2. Let know to the man that you made everything accidentally that strongly you worry and you regret. Usually it is not possible to talk after treason, shouts, charges cannot be constructive. Therefore write the letter in which tell how everything happened. Surely ask forgiveness, tell that it was the biggest mistake in your life. Not superfluous will be to tell what he is an excellent man that you very much regret that so occurred. Do not try to let know in the letter that you want to return, leave a possibility of decision-making to the man. The purpose is to inform of words repentance and to show that you the surprising woman who is capable of such deep acts.
3. The following step — correction of appearance. The first that is noticed by men - it is beauty of the lady. Once you already managed to subdue it, it it is more difficult to make the second time. Probably, time to go on a diet, to update clothes and to study all mysteries of a make-up came. It is necessary to become charming and attractive, but not vulgar and defiant. Beautiful things, accurate heels, well-groomed hair, ideal nails now need, but not a rare exception.
4. When the image is ready, it is necessary to create circumstances when you meet. It is good if you have mutual friends, it will allow to be crossed the other day the births, the general parties, just on a visit. Talk to girlfriends, ask them to help. But it is important that everything occurred naturally, he should not guess, what are you doing it specially. Still it is possible to go to its favourite cafe, to shop at his house or to other places where he often is.
5. At any meetings do not ignore it, but also be not persuasive. Surely greet, interested as it lives. But do not show that strongly are interested in it. Behave as usual, he all the same will notice how you perfectly look as changed lately. It is important to flirt with whom another at these meetings, being did not forget about your treason yet, so it is necessary to be without the men's company. All these manipulations will lead to the fact that it will cease to avoid you. It can occur in a week, and maybe in several months.
6. And when he does not look down at a conversation any more, does not leave when you appear nearby, it is possible to start active actions. It is important to remain with it alone and to bring him to a conversation. It is necessary not to say in eyes that you want to return everything, and just to hint that very much you miss that you dream its embraces. It is not necessary to try to drag it in a bed, it does not guarantee continuation of feelings, it is important to let it know that it is still very expensive to you. Also do not wait that he will embrace at once and will tell that missed too. Sometimes so happens, but usually the man needs to think some time, you do not hurry him, you do not call when he makes the decision, he will let you know about it.