How to return the guy whom offended

How to return the guy whom offended

Not always the reason of leaving of the guy - new love. The man can leave not because ceased to love. Just sometimes accidentally told word is capable to kill even the most strong feeling and trust. And it is not so simple to regain the trust. But to try to return the guy whom offended, always costs.

Instruction

1. Think of whether precisely you need this person, whether everything in him suited you earlier. Can be that you just were tired to pretend to be also in the next collision of opinions, at last, stated all that was long saved. Perhaps, in this case the best decision will be to endure a gap, to calm down, be alone some time.

2. Define: whether really he is offended, or just could not find the reason to leave you and the arisen situation became for him rescue. If the second - consider its leaving the best of what occurred in your life lately, but do not lose hope: the destiny surely will find you.

3. If the first, then try to recognize the mistakes and to regret sincerely deeds. Ask for it forgiveness. Explain in what you are not right why at that time you acted this way. If the person is interested in you and actually loves you, then will try to understand and forgive.

4. Change, become that from which it will not be able just to leave. Try to surprise him: make what you never before did. Think of what in you did not suit it, try to change. Only do it sincerely, deception and cunning all the same will emerge sooner or later.

5. Remember what most of all was pleasant in you to your guy. And now compare yourself at the time of acquaintance to it and now. Maybe you became less careful and more rough? Think of how again to become such which so was necessary to it.

6. Try to trust the guy whatever it happened. Do not show him what only you guess. Most likely, it is only imaginations. And do not try to be main in the relations at all, do not make for it any decisions, it can not be pleasant to the man. Remember that the real sincere relations very need love and care. And even if your guy is determined to leave – do not worry! Continue to care for him, to give him warmly, indifferently. Only be not persuasive. Also believe that the true love works wonders: it will surely return!

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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