To be successful and self-assured, the man needs to feel care and support of the wife. How to support the husband in difficult situations?
Instruction
1. First of all the wife needs most to be confident in own man, such confidence is transferred to the husband. When the man feels favourite and necessary, he is ready to cope with any difficulties, as well as his wife, he is sure that he will overcome all obstacles.
2. When the man is tormented, trying to find a way out of a difficult situation, and the wife is ready to state it the obvious decision, it is necessary to do it delicately. It is not necessary to announce bluntly elementary things which the spouse does not notice, and it is worth trying to bring smoothly him to the decision, or to prompt, advise softly.
3. Do not stop to remind the spouse that you consider him the clever, judicious man and what decision he would not make, in the circumstances, it will be true. The man will receive a necessary incentive and will act more actively and more surely.
4. If the man is depressed under oppression of problems, do not take in head to be upset and be depressed after it. On the contrary, the woman always has to radiate a positive spirit, trust in the good result of affairs, it will help to load with a positive and your spouse.
5. Sometimes the man needs time to digest information. Create for it the suitable atmosphere of silence, let at it an opportunity everything will be quiet to consider, weigh, make decisions. At such moments you should not stick to the husband with inquiries, councils, excessive comments, the statement, silence gold is in this situation applicable.
6. Abstain from not prosheny remarks and criticism. If the man is engaged in any business, you should not interfere and learn as it is correct, it is the best of all to restrain. If you want the head of the family to be the husband who will carry for you and yours relatives responsibility, to care for them, want to feel absolutely safe you should not undertake much. To be engaged to anything in men's affairs even if are sure that at you will turn out better, you will fight all hunting off the husband, he will shift a burden of responsibility to your shoulders. Support in it desire to carry out men's duties.
7. Respect the man, his opinion. You teach children that in family the father main and the last word always behind it. The man has to feel that all family supports his domination, respects its decisions.