Husbands throw wives not so seldom, but from it is not less offensive for the offended woman and is sick. Emotional weight of situation can influence very long your further life if not to struggle with melancholy and a depression. Without having found forces to go further and to perelistnut this page of life, unfortunate women can despair and make an irreparable act absolutely.
Instruction
1. Apprehend parting as a step to new happier life, a starting point to the delight. Stop to accuse the spouse of the event. For everything that happens in marriage, both are responsible. That you in the future did not make the same mistake, sort out your vital drama. Answer all questions that disturbed you in marriage.
2. If you understood that you were too dependent on the husband, it will be very difficult to you to break link with it and to adapt to new life. You feel that with its leaving the life lost the meaning, this manifestation of codependence from other person. To get rid of it, raise the self-assessment and more accurately represent yourself as the personality.
3. Often the man leaves when in the relations the balance was long broken "to allow - to take". And the distortion in any party will not lead to anything good. If you only gave, without demanding anything in exchange, at the husband there will come satiation and not demand. If you only demanded, the spouse will throw you to get love and caress from other woman. Remember all the conclusions, do not wave away from bitter lessons.
4. Reconcile to "loss", do not perceive the incident as a temporary quarrel. Illusions break and will painfully wound the person who created them, sharp splinters. Of course, you still can meet again, such opportunity cannot exclude. But to hope for it and to wait when the husband thinks again and will return, it is impossible.
5. Get up courage, undress, wash and approach a big mirror. To begin new life, you need to change most, of course, to the best! Look at yourself impartially and write out all "works" which need to be carried out to a notebook. Do not grieve, it needs to be done with pleasure and an anticipation of updating of the beauty.
6. Learn in large beauty shop what procedures they can offer that you after them carried yourself as the queen. Pay attention to a face, hair, hands and a body. Do not ignore anything. When you see result, perhaps, will not begin to mourn about the past, and will focus on the future. Perhaps you were always worthy bigger?
7. Change clothes, put away all depressive clothes far away. Juicy natural shades never get out of fashion, in the white winter and in the gloomy fall it is possible to be bright and memorable too. Buy the whole bag of different accessories, with their help you will change every day, having only couple of dresses. Surely buy qualitative footwear on a high heel. A hairpin – very strong weapon for gaining the man.
8. Register in fitness or swimming. It will help to put a body in order and will expand your circle of contacts. Among adherents of a healthy lifestyle you can meet also the destiny.
9. You do not dull cardiac pain, self-medicating. Women often think out to themselves medicine for vital problems instead of solving them. And in wine the grief does not need to be heated, there is a big risk to drown most.