Getting acquainted on the Internet, girls often face similar problems. The most widespread of them - how to talk to the guy on social network to show the interest and not to seem persuasive.
Acquaintance on the Internet
Acquaintance on social networks every day gains the increasing popularity. On the Internet it is much simpler to conduct dialogue - there is time to consider told, to draw conclusions and to write the answer. The VKontakte network gives to the users unlimited opportunities for new acquaintances, the girl with ease can narrow search of applicants for a role of the soulmate by means of successfully picked up filters – the city, age, etc. To choose is not a problem, and here tactfully to begin a conversation with the guy for many ladies - an impossible task.
At acquaintance on the Internet the girl has to follow the main rule - to be herself and to talk about what is interesting not only to the guy, but also her.
What to begin a conversation with?
It is necessary to begin a conversation simply and unostentatiously. It is possible it is banal to ask how its affairs, mood, what weather reigns at it outside the window, than he is busy at the moment, etc. If the guy is interested in the beginning of the new relations, he will take the initiative and with interest will ask questions to the casual stranger. In case the male is not really talkative, it is better to choose some neutral subject for communication continuation. For example, if he puts a question point-blank and will want to learn the addition purpose in friends, it is possible to take away a subject to the course of distribution of goods or services, to be sorry to bother you and to plunge into new search.
If the guy does not hurry to make an appointment to the first, the girl can take the initiative. In case of manifestation of mutual interest, the first appointment will soon take place.
How to continue communication?
If the first dialogue with the boy took place successfully, and in the future the girl is going to correspond with it, it is necessary to take an interest about his private life. Happens that guys strike up several acquaintances, hiding the status about marital status. Not to get on such trick it is necessary to ask when it had last serious relations why they left the darling, etc. Not superfluous will be to check its photos and records on a wall to study style of communication and a way of life. You should not tell much about the past of the guy also, perhaps, it for it a sensitive issue. The long relations on social network usually come to an end with meetings in real life. It is better that the first appointment took place in the crowded place, for example, in cafe or cinema. It will allow young people to feel is weakened and easy.