Education of the teenager - process difficult. Long notations, remarks, instructive councils, he perceives in bayonets. He is sure that everything knows and is able. In a dispute the teenager does not show patience, he is not concerned by opinion of adults. The family which was once lovely to it recedes into the background. To the matured child it becomes sad among an everyday talk.
Instruction
1. Communicating with the teenager, avoid reproaches, a claim, insults in return. Otherwise without having found understanding in family, he can easily leave the house. To join pack of the same teenagers whom nobody understands. Consequences can be unpredictable.
2. If the teenager does not wish to fulfill the duties and everything does to you in defiance, for example, turns on loudly the music, try to start talking to him from the first, or third party. At the same time do not remember his behavior. You speak so: "From loud music I increase pressure" or "Children who neglect study, will not be able to achieve anything in life".
3. Benevolent and polite tone – a guarantee, the fact that the teenager will hear you. Talking to the child, you never pass to shout.
4. If the matured child tells something, listen carefully. Who as you, the example teach him to be the attentive listener. If you are angry, it is better to postpone a conversation with the teenager.
5. Wishing to begin with the child a conversation, first of all, to an ustanovimta with it visual contact. If the teenager looks at you – perfectly. If is not present – ask him about it. This reception effectively works in a case with husbands when it is necessary to pay their attention to himself.
6. Sound the question or a request when the child comes into visual contact with you. Regularly applying similar tactics, you accustom him to listen carefully to you. The main thing, you remember, the teenager is too the personality who needs to be respected.