Good relations with the mother-in-law are worth a lot. And the good gift will help to create the favorable atmosphere between you. So you will show the attention and care that will surely affect your further communication.
Instruction
1. When choosing a gift the positive spirit and the kind attitude towards the recipient is necessary. Forget all your disagreements, quarrels and cavils. Think that it – the most loved and native one of your husband, and put as a gift heart and soul, at least for the sake of him.
2. If you rather well know it, it is possible to choose a gift under her hobbies and interests. For example, she likes to cook – the necessary culinary device will approach, spends time in a garden with pleasure – present something for a garden. But it is not necessary to be limited to a symbolical gift like a small serving spoon, it is better to present really useful device. Study the range to pick up a useful thing which it does not have yet.
3. Mother-in-law, most likely, coeval of your mother. It is possible to consult to her to pick up a gift, age-appropriate. But you should not give something, emphasizing its years. Cream from wrinkles, she will buy the hearing aid or other similar things independently.
4. If you choose a gift for your first meeting, it is difficult to pick up something individual. It is possible to be limited to a bouquet of its favourite flowers and box of chocolates. Specify nuances at the man not to lose with a gift.
5. At cohabitation choose a gift so that it was used mainly by the mother-in-law. If you buy the washing machine or a pan – all family will use. Choose the gifts suitable under its needs and desires.
6. If you the needlewoman, make something with own hands. It will be pleasant to her that you put so many forces and time as a gift. It is not obligatory to knit or sew something, it is possible to make the family photo album filled with your general photos with original registration. It is possible to think up amusing signatures under each photo.
7. As a last resort it is possible to present standard gifts which are suitable practically for all. Figurines, frames with photos, candlesticks, certificates on procedures in SPA salon, a gift card in shop and other similar objects belong to them.
8. Besides a gift pay attention and to words which you will tell during delivery of a gift. The stretched parcel is silent will make a repellent impression so think over a small wish. It is possible to prove somehow the gift, for example, "for our magic needlewoman we give the assistant – the sewing machine". The gift has to proceed from you with the husband so give also to it the chance to tell the wishes.