How to tell about pregnancy to parents

How to tell about pregnancy to parents

Pregnancy is almost always an event, joyful for girls. However need to speak about it with parents can cause fear. It is necessary to prepare for such conversation in advance.

Be at loss for words

News about your pregnancy anyway for parents will be unexpected. You have to think how you will inform of it. First of all try not to shed tears if you feel that they rise, at least until when you do not tell about everything. Do not begin a conversation with frightening words, for example, the fact that you have bad news. Be ready to answer a set of questions which to you can set.

Prepare for any reaction

Having been at loss for words for a conversation, you need to think over reaction which can follow. Here everything depends on your relations with parents as far as they are familiar with your private life that they know about your sexual activity, etc. Remember how they reacted to unexpected news from you in the past that was told or done. If you know that they can react too violently, try to talk at first to any of friends close to you or the relative, and then tell this news to parents together. Parents can be shocked with the beginning of your sexual activity if they do not know about it. Consider it when you speak about pregnancy.

Time for a conversation

The earlier you will tell parents about the pregnancy, the better. However time for such conversation has to be suitable. Try to start this conversation in time, free for your parents, when they are ready to listen to you. They should not hurry somewhere. Do not dramatize a situation if you feel that neither you, nor parents are ready to a conversation yet. You do not say that you have extremely important news. Just ask them whether they are ready to talk to you. You speak at the same time quietly as you do it usually.

Conversation

If you are with parents in good relations and know that news about your pregnancy will be for them joyful, the conversation for you will take place easily. If you feel fear of the forthcoming conversation and do not know what from it to wait, kind of you neither prepared and nor selected time for this conversation, it will be for you difficult. First of all relax and do not try to foresee events, it much more will simplify the forthcoming conversation. You speak with confidence and quietly, you look at the same time in the face. News to parents can be shocking, try to calm them, smile, take them by hand, etc. The conversation can turn also into long silence from parents, perhaps, they will need time to be at suitable loss for words. Be ready to it, you remember that you speak about things, very important for all of you.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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