Situations when men marry twice or even three times, meet today continually. The relations between the presents and ex-wives develop not always successfully, especially, if in families there are children.
Instruction
1. Try to define for yourself at once – whether this man is necessary to you. If the relations in the past, and you perfectly feel without it, treat his new wife indulgently. Now she should be reconciled with its numerous shortcomings, to maintain its intolerable character and to forgive flaws.
2. If the hope is not lost yet, and you still have to being feelings, try to estimate the chances critically. Whether it is worth breaking new family, especially, if already the child appeared? Think if the person disappointed your hopes once and left to another – he can make it again, in several months or years.
3. A lot of things in the relations between real and the ex-wife depend on how there took place parting. If you consider that the new passion "fought" off you the husband, he "threw" you, - it will be very difficult to improve with it the relations. First of all be engaged in the self-assessment, feel beautiful, desired and independent of the past. In case so far it does not work well - best of all just not to meet and not to communicate, or to be limited at a meeting to the minimum set of polite phrases.
4. Try to understand whether the new wife of the husband is jealous of you. Often the relations are spoiled by this jealousy, unwillingness "to return" the husband even for a short time. If you want to come into contact with the new wife, try to communicate less with the man more – with her. You treat former as to foreign man, pretend that forgot about his addictions and hobbies.
5. Try to analyze a situation and to present ideal, from your point of view, option of the relations. At the same time think not only of the benefit, but also good health of other participants. When you have an image of the relations before eyes, begin to act. Even if the new wife first to be surprised to your affability, and children will not want to walk with "aunt", sooner or later you will achieve the, and in the relations the peace will come.
6. Anyway, be generous. Find forces to wish good luck to the ex-husband and his new family even if at heart cats scrape at this time.