Why the guy is necessary? To care, love, look in his face and know that you are loved too … To walk for the handle and in embraces of the guy to forget about pain which is brought by surrounding people... To rejoice and worry together with him … And on days off to roll and watch the favourite movie together... That helped at a difficult moment that swore and in five minutes were reconciled … But guys are necessary not to all for this purpose whether the guy is so necessary to you?
Instruction
1. So, how to understand, the guy is necessary or not? It is very simple. If you need the person for any purposes whom it is possible to call "the guy", then, of course, in this case, the guy is necessary! And if there are no reasons, or there are reasons which directly say that any "my boyfriend" will hinder only, then certainly, under such circumstances, the guy is not necessary. ""But"", as always, this word arises when the problem is already, at first sight, solved and sets us thinking that, actually, this question very difficult. From where, let us assume, at the fourteen-year-old girl will doubts when one morning comes to her mindher mind that it by all means needs somebody whom she could call "guy" undertake? Let's reject trite thoughts aside and we will assume that yesterday other girl of the same age told that she already has the real guy. In it the moment in the head of the fourteen-year-old girl the lightning flashed, and the thunder of envy passed a shock wave on all body. ""I want too!"" - there was a reason, and soon, as a result, there was a guy who and does not know that he became only the tool of disposal of envy. After a while between them, most likely, there is a conflict, and, figuratively being expressed, with a trauma on heart the girl the whole nights cries at herself on a bed. As conclusion: it is improbable that so young teenagers could understand whether the guy is necessary to them or not.
2. At more mature age the sexual aspect comes of both sexes to the forefront in the relations. Behind this aspect, on the second plan, usually, the fact of the public relation i.e. as not only your acquaintances, but also absolutely strangers treat you follows. And when these two aspects connect, the girl not to pass all around "excessively available", it is necessary to call the lover – the guy and to banish on gravity in the relations. Other girls continue policy of the fourteen-year-old girl and begin to meet guys, only "to stand out" before girlfriends, still nobody cancelled feeling of female envy. Usually, such girls soon also remain offended, and even – humiliated, but continue "to bend the line".
3. Sometimes for girls, girls the presence of the guy is a certain border before which they remained still children, and behind which they became already adult. In the eyes they grew up for several years in one day. Too most – smoking. Therefore such desire that you had a guy, should be regarded as an addiction.
4. But the main indicator of that, the guy is necessary or not if to understand as this word of the person who is very dear to you, to whom you test more, than attachment, ordinary heart is. And, as we know, the heart has a will of its own to love one, and from another to hold far away, but it is possible to order to consciousness that it saved your heart from heavy shocks.
5. How to understand, the guy is necessary or not? Never be guided by egoistical motives in this question. It is not such point in life which it is possible to check, then to erase it and to put several times. Nobody, of course, is insured from mistakes, but it is necessary to avoid at least those which happen through our fault.
6. If you love the person and want to spend always with him time, to feel as much as possible its proximity to itself then, there is no difference how to call this person – the friend, the guy or the husband. Just be near it always.