Feelings of the woman who learns that she expects a baby are unforgettable. Now, apparently, it is necessary to expect quietly and happily appearance of the kid. But time goes, bringing both to joy, and chagrin. And any trifle can make cry future mother. At the same time not only she suffers, but also relatives. How to understand the pregnant wife?
Instruction
1. Sometimes begins to seem to you that your pregnant wife as if was changed. She becomes angry, cries for any reason. Digs in itself, in your behavior, organizes quarrels from scratch. Generally – will always find a reason for offense in a surrounding situation or in behavior of other people. Believe, such situation develops at many couples which expect the child. Try to understand that future mother herself also is not glad to the whims. Just during pregnancy the hormonal background of the woman changes. It also causes the increased susceptibility to external factors. Means, at all not deteriorated character directs behavior of the spouse. Remember: everything stated in a fit of temper, with tears and bitterness, is dictated not by her consciousness, but hormones. After a while the spouse will calm down and itself will be ashamed of offensive words. Step on male pride for the sake of tranquility of family, embrace future mummy and tell that all of you equally it love.
2. The pregnant woman needs special attention and care. Without receiving it (according to her), she takes offense. And offenses develop into quarrels. Be interested in health of the wife, help about the house more. Ask the spouse on pregnancy, iron a tummy more often, talk to the kid. It will help to waken to fatherly feelings and affection for the child. It will be easier for you to understand future mother.
3. Everything would be wrong to be written off for a hormonal background. Sometimes the woman just lacks maternal care. Taking offense and rowing, not wishing to mature, in such a way she tries to draw attention of the spouse, to find this care at it. Talk to the wife. Experiences of the pregnant woman bring discomfort not only her and relatives, but also the child. You descend together on reception to the psychologist to help the spouse to understand themselves, to make waiting time of the kid joyful and happy.