For many girls it is not so simple to make an avowal of sentiments words. Many to be afraid not to find suitable words, to quail and get into an awkward situation, having begun to stammer or without having told anything. Some fear to be misunderstood or rejected. It is much simpler to commit the feelings and thoughts to paper or in the electronic message.
Instruction
1. The first problem arising at many in attempt to commit the feelings to paper – how to begin the letter? Begin with the address to the beloved. Further process will go easier. For example: "Dear Vanya, I never wrote you about the feelings …" Such beginning of the letter will let know at once what it is about. If you are not indifferent to the man, he will read further lines attentively, slowly savouring each word.
2. Do not think that in the letter there will be mistakes or the wrong formulations. Try to write with all the heart, to state everything that you feel. Carefully be and consider loss for words that the message became graceful, and phrases were postponed in memory of the one to whom they are addressed. But be not overzealous: too beautiful words and florid turns will make an impression of insincerity and affectedness. Simplicity, sincerity and caress in this case will be much more appropriate.
3. Write that you think of the guy, the most valuable qualities of the beloved, of as far as the relations existing between you are expensive to you. Write how feelings which you have now were born in your soul. Tell about the wishes concerning your further relations.
4. If you write the unfamiliar guy, be not too frank, telling about your attitude towards him. It is unknown whether the man though feels some mutual feelings though some sympathy. So – it is unknown what reaction will be caused in it by your recognition. Quite perhaps, he will laugh at you. Then you will be infinitely sorry that you entrusted him the most intimate.
5. Do not write anything negative in the message. For example, how to you it is bad without darling. Such words in reply will cause only pity, but not the aspiration to reciprocate. Do not threaten it that you will not be able to live without it. It will only push away the person, will force him in any ways to avoid meetings with you that an accidental word not to provoke you to some nonsense.
6. Do not forget about execution of the letter – it the circumstance will serve to you good service. Do not write on the accidental sheet of paper or on pulled out from a notebook, take quality expensive paper. Write with equal and accurate handwriting that it was easier for beloved to read and understand the meaning of written. Or write at first the draft copy, then re-read and rewrite beautiful handwriting. It will save you from corrections and blots and also will allow to make the necessary changes to a final version. And, of course, choose the most beautiful, in your opinion, an envelope.