Often after the wedding of the wife complain that their husbands became lazy, untidy, show smaller interest, do not give gifts, etc. Allegedly prior to a wedding they were others. The reason of such claims is in the attitude of the woman towards the man. When the wife thinks that she could marry more successfully and begins to saw the husband, he in turn looks at the attitude towards her indifferently. At worst business will reach treason.
If the wife sees the support in the husband, completely trusts him, shares, respects, then affairs at such man will go uphill rather. The soulmate supports him. He will not want to prolezhivat time on a sofa, not to be interested in family life and other cares, unlike those men to whom are rude and verbally humiliate.
When the wife shifts all men's duties, for example on the house to herself, the man stops being self-assured, and at it desire something vanishes to be engaged. In many families there is a fight for superiority who will earn more who will make a dinner more tasty. If the woman is a leader, then at the man the internal core, that is courage is automatically lost.
Qualities of behavior of the husband directly depend on what model of communication with it was chosen by the wife. If to focus attention to its shortcomings, then they become more and if to extol for something good, then it will become more. Of course, there are no ideal men and women. At all is present at character both good and bad. Here only the wife should most solve to what party to give more attention. For example, someone is irritated by excessive cleanliness, but why to this quality not to be glad.
The behavior of the man in marriages (if them was a little) differs from each other because with different women he behaves differently. In one marriage the husband drinks, does not work, is not interested in house efforts, behaves is lazy and when gets divorced, and meets the woman of other temperament, changes in the eyes. Begins, plays sports, to lead a healthy lifestyle and, generally, happily to live. There can be also a reverse situation when the rich and self-assured man after the divorce loses the social status and situation in society. In both cases matter in wives. Some wives inspire spouses, then the power of belief can provide safe family life. And others can aggravate so a situation that will make only worse and themselves and the second half.