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The main meaning of the relations is equilibration of the internal conflicts of both partners. But most often we try to change darling. We go to see in him an object, ideal for us, without shortcomings and with a mass of advantages. We accuse the partner when something goes not so. Actually, we are haunted by our latent defects which we see in our soulmate.
What sense in the relations?
It is difficult to person to postpone all events alone. In the partner we look for support and a support. The ideal relations connect two people around something the general, they have to be a component of the natural course of life, but the relations cannot be done by the meaning of all life. Partnerov can unite the general way of life, the general values, the general passion, purpose, etc.
Whether there is a sense in the relations?
If at the person the meaning of life is lost, he tries to fill it with the relations. But the relations will not be able to save the situation but only aggravate it. In that case there are relations for the sake of the relations. Such couple constantly will face various problems because of unreasonable requirements to each other. They will want to change the partner and to subordinate to themselves. Even for the sake of the relations it is impossible to renounce itself and the meaning of the life.
If you do not see sense in the relations, it is possible that yet that person with whom it will be interesting to create and support these relations did not meet. You should not force events and to look for couple only because so it is necessary that it would be time to start the relations or a family. You have no satisfaction from such relationship. It is necessary to try to develop the inner world, to become more many-sided person, then you will be able to meet the partner who will look with you in one party. With such person you will be able to be happy.