How to build the relations with parents? How to parents to realize ""maturity"" of the son or daughter? Formation of the interfamily relations - rather important component in life as newlyweds, and those who gave them life.
Perhaps, after intimate relations, the most ambiguous subject is a question of how to build the relations with parents. Really, young people got married and left "a parental nest". How further itself did allow to conduct with those who brought up you, raised, educated and in general you life?
Undoubtedly, it is necessary to belong to parents with due respect. If to think, then parental consent for marriage could and not to be. And depends on such consent very much. It is a sufficient occasion to be respectful to parents.
Despite this, parents should not prevent to live to newlyweds. It is very difficult to realize that your child, now former whom you brought up for which you were literally everything will go to live to other house tomorrow. But this task remains for the parent, he has to cope with it, otherwise, subsequently, it will only disturb newlyweds. As for young people, they can recommend to help parents in every possible way.
But this help should not go beyond reasonable. Both parties have to realize that that one life which was till a marriage or a marriage broke up to two independent lives now. Each party can have plans, desires and opportunities and when someone asks someone about the help, this party of a question surely should be considered. Otherwise such help can be regarded as egoism from the parent ("I brought up you, I gave you life and I dispose of you"). Such position in a root is wrong and practically with 100 percent probability will lead to an interfamily gap.
But the worst even not it, but when parents begin to advise how to live to newlyweds. The thing is that the young family, absolutely independent cell of society is formed. This cell is formed with the principles, tenor of life and life. Young people have to create all these things, it should not be imposed from the outside at all. Of course, the parent has the right to advise, but to accept or not to accept such council – the responsibility entirely lying on newlyweds.
As a result we will tell that the subject of the relations with parents is rather delicate. In the course of such communication it is necessary to be guided more likely by an intuition. Well and surely those problematic issues which arise at each of partners have to be "fulfilled" behind closed doors.