All relations pass certain stages of development. Some couples manage to cover all distance and to keep feelings, others leave for various reasons. As is well-known on one love it is impossible to construct the strong union as it is a certain work and first of all, over itself. Only having changed itself for the sake of darling it is possible to start a strong family.
7 stages of the family relations
- Saturation. In the people it is called still "candy buketnym" the period. On average it lasts about 18 months. At the beginning of all relations in a human body a certain hormone which effect can be compared to pink glasses is produced. At this stage everything is pleasant to partners in each other. Some psychologists compare a similar state to drug intoxication.
- Satiation. At this stage of the relations from eyes the veil falls down and it is already possible to assess a situation soberly. Partners can already see certain shortcomings. Lovers get used to each other, and they already prove out. Many couples are not able to transfer this period and leave.
- Disgust. This stage of the relations of the man and woman there pass all couples the union which lasts long already. At this time people face different quarrels, cavils, charges, etc. The greatest percent of partings is the share of this stage of the relations. Experts consider that the presents of the relation it is possible to call only after overcoming this period.
- Patience. The people who reached this stage of development of the relations already understand that quarrels are temporary tests and they should be overcome correctly. Lovers try to show tolerance, and it as a result turns into wisdom. People already understand that they need these relations, and they work on their preservation.
- Respect. Psychologists consider that this stage is the first stage of true love. Each person has an understanding that it is not necessary to demand, and it is worth giving.
- Friendship. At this stage of development of the family relations there is a feeling that darling the most important and loyal friend. Partners have no secrets, and they trust each other as to nobody. Lovers do pleasant, without thinking of what will follow in reply.
- Love. Only couples which successfully passed everything the previous stages can learn feeling of true love. Partners know already all merits and demerits of each other and quietly agree with it. This feeling of love can be told more spiritual, without any restrictions.
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