Certain traits of character of the woman can both attract the desired man, and to frighten off him. Certainly, men, first of all, pay attention to appearance. However even the most beautiful and desired girl can push away from herself the man if some habits are peculiar to her.
Concentration on a negative and frequent tears. Men very hard perceive the moments when the woman cries. As a rule, most of males simply does not represent what to do in such situation. Besides, subconsciously the man begins to blame himself for a hysterics of the darling. When for tears in principle there is no occasion or they become way of manipulation, it will lead to the conflicts and aggression from the man sooner or later. If the woman constantly concentrates only on a negative, complains, she has a tendency to ache for the least thing, then it will very quickly frighten off the young man. After all, it is hardly possible to find such people, it would be pleasant to whom when near them constantly grumble, pile on the agony, speak about something bad, spoil to them mood.
Desire to control. Men love freedom. Many men hardly transfer attempts of control from women. It is necessary to understand that personal space, an opportunity to stay with itself alone, inviolability of personal things are very important both for men, and for women. If to try to control and trace constantly each men's step, to tide up its things, to throw out its personal belongings or clothes, at the same time without having consulted to the man, to make scandals and interrogations from scratch, all this will turn back a rift in relations and will ruin even the strongest love.
Tendency to constantly compare the elect to other men or the former lovers. From the woman any man will not be able to take out similar behavior. Perhaps, at first darling will also indulgently react to such comparisons, to certain remarks and a talk on a similar subject. However gradually similar will just bother him. Besides, constant comparison – especially not to the best – men with other people leads to the fact that his self-assessment very much suffers. It is capable to lead not only to frequent quarrels without the reason, but also to a depression at the young man. If the woman, comparing the elect to the other/former men, acts from good intentions, let us assume, trying to motivate somehow the man, then it is better to refuse such way. Will encourage, praise and support, stimulate more true the darling in other, positive ways.
Passion for parties and frivolous relation to money. Cheerful, bright and effective girls often draw male attention. However, if the young man is ready for really serious and harmonious relations with the beloved, he will not estimate love of the woman for constant parties, parties at all. Besides, if the woman spends many times more time with the friends and girlfriends, prefers to come off in club or to regularly attend various actions, the man begins to feel unnecessary, useless and thrown. Similar can lead both to unfaithfulness, and to break in relations. You should not forget that men do not encourage thoughtless expenditure of money also. Especially in that situation if the financial position in couple depends, first of all, on the man.
Inability to keep the mouth shut. In this case the thirst for gossips, for empty chatter and such line as inability to keep others secrets is meant. To listen to constantly infinite stories by the girl about that as as in life of friends and acquaintances, the man happens boringly, it is uninteresting. However he can abstract somehow from similar. But it will be far more difficult for it to wave away from a thought that his darling with ease tells all and to everyone about the relations, about intimate life, remorselessly shares with girlfriends various secret and secrets of the elect and so on. Such created suspiciousness can have an adverse effect on character of the young man, on the relations and his feelings.