To live with the husband who suffers from tediousness, pedantry – test for any woman, even with strong and iron nerves. But if desired and the correct behavior even with such person it is possible to find a common language and to be happy.
Tediousness – trait of character. Men are bores egocentric, are not able to adapt to situations, do not accept compromises. It is better not to be engaged in redoing. It is waste of time and the forces. It is difficult to get on with such husband, but it is possible, especially, if it is the person native and not indifferent for you.
First of all, it is necessary to understand what type of "bores" your spouse treats.
Aggressive rigidny type
Aggressively – rigidny: epileptoidny type of character, stubborn, selfish. Stops at nothing to the purposes and persistently tries to obtain the desirable. With such type it is difficult to reach compromise, it is simpler to agree, than to do attempts something to explain or to prove.
However it is possible to find merits in its character, and then his tediousness will not be such obvious. First of all, such man purposeful and rectilinear, so, you will better know what he wants and to choose what strategy of communication not to turn family life into a reason for grief and disappointment.
Melancholiac
The melancholiac – the bore: psikhastenichesky character. This is the disturbing man who persistently requires to himself attention, he is not rational, excessively captious to trifles. It is possible to communicate with such husband only by means of subtle humour, but without any ulterior motive and irony.
Consider, these are sincerely vulnerable men, do not wound them the claims vanity.
Hidden
The hidden bore is a man who constantly is dissatisfied with something. First of all, life, work, wife, policy. At it it is obligatory to eat an object or a subject which is the reason of his discontent and failures. Everything, except it. He is not guilty, and a point! The hidden bore is inclined to scandals, is captious by the household moments of family life. Such person is very attentive, so, once it uses. Know, he has a good memory therefore you are not silent about the desires and preferences. Be sure, he will remember everything and will not forget you to please at a well-chosen moment. Main thing, patience and tranquility. These qualities will help you to get on with such man. Show him the participation, be interested in his life and sympathize with its problems. It is worth understanding that there are no ideal men.
Merits, if desired, can be found also at bores: very often such husbands also are exacting to themselves.
Wives of such men have less opportunities to contemplate a disorder in the apartment, the scattered things or dirty ware. These men are economical, rationally spend money, drink less often. The strategy of behavior of wives in many respects depend on type of temperament of the woman – wives. Perfectly get on with the woman's bores with phlegmatic type of character, and it is the most difficult for the wife – the melancholiac.