Among young people there is a popular belief that the most important in acquaintance to the pleasant girl is to learn her phone number. However actually it is not less important at all about what you with her by this phone will speak.
Preliminary preparation
The impression which you will make on the girl in many respects depends on the first telephone conversation. After all, the statement that "women are auditory", appeared not from scratch. Consider that girls in the majority prefer rather long communication though also laconic young ladies, of course, meet. Nevertheless, it is worth being prepared for a conversation seriously. If you not the master of a colloquial genre capable it is witty to improvise on any subject, it is better to think up at least base for future communication in advance. It is natural that the current of a conversation cannot be predicted, but in your forces to imagine its beginning and also to formulate several main subjects.
Your subscriber should have no feeling that you call her with boredom or "for show" therefore try to define accurately for yourself what you want to achieve this conversation. As a rule, the purpose of similar calls is appointment invitation, but to increase the chances of success, it is desirable to carry out some preparation. Before an important call be adjusted on the necessary harmony, relax, take care that interfered nothing with you. The impression of a romantic call can be strongly spoiled by foreign sounds therefore choose convenient time and the place.
How to conduct a conversation
If it is your first conversation by phone, then in the beginning it is necessary to be presented and remind circumstances of your acquaintance. Then specify whether it is convenient to your interlocutor to talk, to support a romantic conversation on the run or at a lecture it is difficult. Having convinced that everything is all right, you can directly start the main part of a conversation. Naturally, first of all, it is worth taking an interest in mood of the girl, her affairs and plans. Many psychologists claim that the ability to listen to the interlocutor is not less important at all, than art to tell stories. Of course, if the girl gives you an opportunity to express most, it is necessary to try to find such subject which will be interesting to it: try to avoid sports and political subjects, any negative news, be not obsessed with computer games and in general near-computer subject. It is better to discuss fresh series, novelties of film distribution or favourite books. If it came to mutual friends, it is better to refrain from any sharp estimates because the opinion of your subscriber on any given people can differ from yours considerably. Actually, many women perceive any communication rather from emotional positions, than in terms of informational content therefore it is important to you to transfer emotions, first of all. As you speak, can be much more significant, than what you tell. And, of course, do not forget to ask questions, sincere interest in the interlocutor – one of the best ways to win over it.