Loving couples sometimes should endure parting. Some people, leaving from each other, feelings begin to kill with offensive words, however it is better not to do it.
Instruction
1. If you became the initiator of parting with your soulmate before breaking off the relations, surely thank her for that time that you were together. For certain together you endured a lot of all good. Only it is not necessary to indulge in memoirs and to remind the person whom you leave, of how to you it was good at any given moment. Such talk is capable to hurt already covered with wounds soul.
2. Try to find suitable words to explain the reason of the leaving. However you remember that it is necessary to sound only the true reasons, any lie told even for the good can cause a storm of negative emotions in the person. If you fell in love with someone another, and speak. You can use the following phrase: "You are a wonderful person who taught me to much. In our life there were many good moments. I will always remember what you made (made) for me, but, unfortunately, I met (met) other person with whom I a smog (could) fall in love". If not new love, but your any common problems, quarrels and misunderstanding became the reason of parting, announce the list of qualities which did not suit you in your soulmate. Perhaps, after everything will become clear, you even should not break off the relations with the loved one, being on the verge of a gap, people realize all essence of things more sharply and are ready to make any efforts to establish relation with the beloved.
3. If your soulmate became the initiator of your parting, you should not suit hysterics and scandals, to offend or humiliate the person who once was for you dearest and close. Make its decision with firmness and safely, constrain the emotions and just express the gratitude for your general past. In such situation you can quite indulge in memories of time spent together as pleasant thoughts are capable to force the person to change the mind about the decision.
4. Ask the former soulmate to explain the reasons of the leaving. Try to let know that you are ready to change, for the sake of your general future. If your arrangements did not bring any result, just wish the person good luck in further private life and in any its undertakings and release it. Understand that the sincere love is capable even of such victims, for the sake of wellbeing of dear person. Remember that over time you will be able to forget the offense and too will find the true happiness.