Often happens so that the beautiful, clever and attractive woman one. She persistently looks for the partner in life, but men as if avoid her. Though to other women, not such perfect at first sight, men go.
The man does not need a burden
Life and so very difficult piece. Why to hang on itself also a burden in the form of the woman? Perhaps you are self-sufficient, make good money, watch yourself, but the man feels that to him there will be constant claims, he will need to defend. It strains. The majority just wants to relax and derive pleasure from life.
And now, when marriage depreciated, and at every turn blow about the free relations, weddings play more and more seldom, and get divorced more often. There is no universal remedy which will help to attract and hold the man, of course, but there is couple of advice which will help you not only to attract to itself the worthy man, but also to live with it happy life.
Whether the woman is necessary to the strong man
When the man achieved certain heights, took place as the personality, and hormones returned to normal, there is an understanding that the woman not especially also is necessary. If it is just the woman for whom it is necessary to spend money, time, forces, and she will constantly make scandals and to stamp a leg. The man inclined to love dependence and not really strong in spirit, will suffer all tricks of the hysterical lady. The self-sufficient man will send it to free swimming, and even children will not hold.
Not to remain on the roadside, revise the behavior. Whether your man needs that he was constantly sawn, reproached and were dissatisfied with him? Earned a little, at work was late, forgot to buy flowers. Remember that nobody should not nothing to anybody. Especially, if it concerns the premarital relations.
To be necessary to the strong man, become self-sufficient. What does it mean? It means what to you has to be oneself interestingly in society with. You should not need the man. You can solve all vital problems because you have all necessary skills. You have the settled living position. And you precisely know that you are happy. Oscar Wilde told remarkable words: "You will continue to remain unfortunate until you consider that happy you are made by others".
Qualities and skills of the self-sufficient woman
To attract the strong and reliable man, you have to cease to be afraid of loneliness and to grab the first comer with a thought "though poorish and".
Stop to shift responsibility for the life, the happiness and the state to someone. All depends on you.
Begin to love yourself. It is kind of banal did not sound, but is even written to the Bibles that the neighbor needs to be loved as himself. If you are not able to love yourself and to care for yourself, you will not be able to do it and for others.
The woman – a power source for the man. She scoops energy by nature, accumulates it through occupations favourite affairs. Therefore it is very important to have favourite work and a hobby which will allow to take free time.
The order in thoughts and in the house will also help to be adjusted on the necessary harmony. The woman brings beauty to the world, around it is cozy and warm. And if this feeling of warmth at the man does not arise, most likely, he will pass by such woman.
What are you doing, do everything with love. Fill yourself with energy of love to shine from within.
You watch the body and appearance. Do not try to resemble phytocuties, but also do not start yourself. Respect the body, in it there lives the most wonderful inner world.
How to hold the man
When the strong and clever man found you, allow it to win yourself. Otherwise you at once will become uninteresting to it. He got used to set the purposes and to reach them. Now your self-sufficiency has to pass into the background, it is incompatible with family.
Give reins of government to the husband. Now he main, and you are an assistant. Stop to solve financial problems.
See off the husband for work as war, meet as if he came from war, and all rest of the time try not to bother it.
Take care of the own life, development of as persons. Read, draw, equip life and raise children. If you want to work, surely choose work which to you to liking not to spend the energy it is vain. If you come angry and tired from work, hardly it will make someone happy.
Never climb in affairs of the spouse. Let work remain behind a threshold of your house. Here he has a rest from military operations. Here he is filled with energy and heals wounds. You can listen to him, give advice. But only when he will share. Be not imposed.
It is not necessary to be dissolved in the partner. Avoid dependence. If to seize the man pincers, at him will be normal reaction – to escape. Also it is desirable as soon as possible. Therefore you should not strain it.