When two people who were only recently making an impression of happy married couple get divorced, all people close to them are tormented by a question: "Why?". It would seem, there is no such global reason, only a trifle, but from them and there are all problems of married couples.
The first most banal cause of a divorce is life which, as they say, jammed. Generally people who hurried, got married in a love fever cannot get on with each other, without having known the partner rather well. The young and infantile husband and the wife, having remained together in the dwelling, cannot adapt to habits of the spouse and begin to make an offensive claim. There are also opposite situations - couple lived together many years, its life is debugged to trifles, all know and regularly carry out the duties. But for some reason none of spouses do not want to go home after work! The boredom and exact knowledge of what will be in a few minutes of hours, days, months, years kill feelings of people to each other. Always there has to be an intrigue, in matrimonial life it is impossible to forget about lovely surprises which people so like to do during courtings. Problems of the intimate sphere are frequent too, and they do not depend on age of your marriage. The inability of the partner to meet requirements of darling can separate the strongest couple. That you had no such reasons for parting, learn to listen and hear the spouse. Always, before stating any claim or reproach, think, and you would like to hear it in such form from lips of the loved one. Always it is possible to read literature on frustration in sexual life of spouses, to gather from there information necessary to you and to solve problems. Material aspect of matrimonial life very much konfliktna. The unstable situation in labor market and constant cataclysms in the country can bring the person to a stress. It is important to support each other at such moments, but not to finish mutual reproaches and scandals. You are not ashamed to ask for help of relatives and friends if you divorce, all the same it is necessary to do it. It is better not to risk your marriage and to mobilize all forces for the solution of material problems of your family, than to add to them the tragedy of parting. Alcoholism of one of spouses can become very serious cause of a divorce. It is really real problem which needs to be solved without shelving. Ask acquaintances and friends, can they know an effective remedy or clinic where your partner will be helped by all means. Excessive constraint and concealment of this disease you solve nothing, will only waste time. Very seldom the person can cope one with such trouble, he needs the help of all family. All problems which often conduct to a divorce of married couple can be solved, having a good head on the shoulders and love in heart.