For a long time men are drawn towards sons more, than towards daughters. The prime cause of such behavior is fear for the future of a sort and heritage. A fate of the boy prince – to become the king while the girl was restrained in the rights, marrying according to the ancient arrangement.
Now outside modern times, but former traditions still live in male subconsciousness. The father not always has ideas, than to occupy the daughter as cheerfully for both to spend time with her. The man has an impression that with the boy to it it will be simpler as he was the same once. If the man firmly holds the ground and even does not want to listen about the daughter, it is not necessary to give in to the gushed feelings. Offense and rage not the most faithful advisers in the questions intended to common sense. Before quarreling and splashing out the emotions, it is necessary to understand a key part of the problem and to eradicate it.
Reason
Most often the problem is in the foreground, originating from the established customs and traditions. There is such opinion that fathers love daughters, and of sons – are proud. Often the man wishes the boy more, than the girl because of insufficient realization of own children's desires. For example, the husband likes to play soccer, but regrets that he was not engaged in it professionally. In that case the son is capable to execute the father's dream, unlike the daughter.
When the man imagines pastime with the child, his imagination draws pictures, darlings and acquaintances since the childhood – fishing, soccer, games with balls and cars, a lasagna on trees. It seems that the gentle little girl not absolutely fits into occupations of this sort.
Stories that all children different and hobbies at all too different, usually do not lead to anything. To prove to the man that the girl can love soccer, and the boy of a doll, it is almost impossible.
Actions
The man is not capable to change the created opinion, being based only in words. Vital examples, such as picnic outdoors together with friends who bring up the charming girl, observation of games of the daughter and the father or a conversation with the happy father are necessary. These behavior models are capable to change idea of the man of education of the daughter. The role of the woman is helping to comprehend seen and heard, to explain that the girl considers the father the ideal man, tries to be pleasant in everything to him and to imitate. Often it happens that the daughter chooses the father's profession in which she achieves considerable success.
There is nothing impossible, just it is worth stocking up with time and patience.