There is an opinion that the guy always has to write the girl by the first. However some ladies prefer to take the first step independently. But sometimes it happens so that the girl just ceases to write the young man, and such her behavior has the value.
Reasonable compromise: to write or not?
As a rule, do not wait for frequent calls and messages from the girlfriend. To all there is a reasonable limit. And if the girl cultural, well-mannered, does not begin to keep ringing and write each hour the guy. Such messages will not lead to good. Except negative feelings (irritation, anger) of others, and especially, positive emotions for certain will not be.
Girls very much wait for a call or the message from darling. Sometimes expectation is a heavy work. Sometimes it drags on and there is desire most to remind of itself. Such step is welcomed, but also here it is important not to spoil opinion on itself, guys have also another matters, problems which should be solved without participation of strangers.
It is important to treat freedom of personal space of each of partners tolerantly.
As a rule, girls - big lovers to talk and have a phone conversation, and guys are not so talkative. However happens and so when one call from the girl can really change something in the guy's life. It is no secret that one call is a chance to get acquainted, enter into the relations as relatives, so friendly.
The beloved does not write what does it mean?
If the girl does not tear off your phone the next messages, it does not mean that at her interest in your person was gone. Most likely, she waits for a call or SMS from you, being afraid to seem annoying, or is really busy with affairs (works, studies and so forth). Such nervousness arises at a few diffident young men.
If there are no doubts in feelings of darling, so there are no occasions to worry from infrequent calls.
Talk and correspondence by phone – not the only way of communication, but reliable option of maintenance of good relations, means which will allow to address to each other at the right time. The clever guy knows that if the girl does not call and he does not write itself, he is the main thing in their relations and operates her, solving when to call and write and how many times. It is desirable not to be fond of telephone correspondences and a talk and not to sort out the relations at the slightest pretext and without. Let phone will be just means for the organization of meetings (real-life communication). You should not reduce development of the relations just by exchange of messages by phone. It is an incorrect way, and it has no positive future. Of course, happens and so when the girl really does not want to write you or to call. It is not so difficult to understand it. During the conversation the girl is not eager to communicate with you or dumps your call, does not answer SMS, or tries to finish communication quickly. It is better to try to find out in what the reason that the nobility, it needs you or not. Ask a direct question and consider her answer. You will feel if any more your girl.